Sexy Sights

Sexy Sights and Sounds
Just imagine for several minutes yourself in the embrace of your lover. Both of you both feel crazy, fervid concupiscence for each other, and you're totally lost in the emotion of this moment. Your lover's naked body feels so astonishing. You're caressing each other all over. You begin to kissing when all of a sudden, in no uncertain terms; your lover start to talk different ardent phrases and it excites you.

What do you do in such situation? Rewind or fast-forward?

Would this be a turn on—something that would make you rip off your clothes and say “Take me baby, I'm yours!”?
Or would you be totally turned off and grossed out?
What if your lover popped an X-rated video disk in the computer, and suggested that you watch it together?
What if he or she sent you a salacious e-mail, filled with erotic conversation?
How would you feel if you found an erotic magazine concealed under your partner's bed?
How would you feel if you found charges to a phone sex line on the phone bill?

Of course, it's absolutely natural to become excited by looking at sexy pictures, video, or reading sexy magazines, or talking about sex with someone, over the phone, or online. In fact, for some people, these methods of sexual expression can be acceptable, and very satisfying.

Some people love using sexy talk or erotic images to enhance masturbation, to get aroused before sex, or to enliven their sex life with a partner. But other people don't apprehend porn at all, and even find it nauseous. They hate it. If you don't like frank talk and sexy pictures, then you should keep off them; you don't have to force yourself to try to like anything. But if dissolute talk and pornography make you hot and horny, and it excites you , go for it.

Call of the Wild
“What are you dressed?” Those four pitiful words could be the start of something really sexy—a phone sex conversation. Phone sex between lovers may bring much pleasure and can keep things hot when you're far away from each other, or when you just want to while away the time boring work day.

So how does it work?
Let’s start! All you need is a phone, phone number of your lover, some isolation, some time, and lots of sexy ideas. (And your lover's agreement, because without agreement, phone sex is affectionately known as an illegal “vulgar telephone call”!) As soon as you have your lover desirous and willing on the other end of the line, you must say anything erotic that comes into your mind, so to speak. In case you don’t know what to say, I've listed a few possible phone sex variations which will help to make a good starting place for you. You can either stick with one of the following methods for a total conversation, or flip-flop between methods:

• Image a mental picture of your encounter, and give a blow-by-blow (pardon the pun) narrative as you pretend what's happening. For example: “Right now, you're shoving your hand between the buttons of my soft silk white blouse.”

• Describe the situation what you would like to happen: “I want that you touch my nipples with your tongue.”

• In the event when you masturbate: “I pushed my wet finger into myself, and oh, it is amazing.”

• Tell what you would like to be doing to your partner: “Right now, I am holding your testicles in one my hand, stroking your chest with my other hand, and licking the head of your penis.”

One problem that some people have with phone sex is that you don’t know if the person on the other end has had an orgasm. It's easy to simulate an orgasm when no one's watching. Your lover can make all the sounds of “final,” but you can't see what's going on. That can either add to the mystery of the experience, or it can make you feel very disappointed.

Nude Pictures
For some people it's hard to shun sexual pictures, because they are practically everywhere. In magazines, on television, placards, and in advertisements, it stimulates you mind. Even general interest magazines feature poor clad models in provoking poses. Nowadays, porn magazines are very popular so chance that you can see them on newsstands almost every place you go. Practically everyone hasseen a picture of a Pantarhei or Penthouse Pet right there on the newsstand at the local 7–11. And if you peek behind the counter at some newsstands, you might even find more hard-core magazines, such as Hustler, Leg Show, Oui, Housemaid, and High Society.

Many people (frequently there are men) like to look at porn magazines for the sexual excitation of seeing others naked. A lot of people prefer masturbating while looking at dissolute magazines with naked picture. Years ago, doctors concluded that men would become more aroused by photos of nude body than women would. However, today's research proves that is not true. Both men and women can get equally turned on from looking sexy pictures. In case naked pictures of people you don't know aren't stir your idea, you and your partner can take your own shots of each other. Get together with a camera, and then you will have sexy attitudes. You should decide beforehand what happen with the pictures after you're done enjoying them. Decide whether one of you will keep them or you'll throw them away.

Sexy Stories
In all places where sell porn magazines you can find plenty of porn magazines that just contain erotic writing, not sexy pictures. These are often called “letters” magazines, such as Penthouse Letters, Kinky Letters, or Fetish Letters, moreover erotic magazines, you can read steamy dialogue in books. Authors such as Night’s Lusts, The Kennisington Ladies, and Susie Bright write softer porn that's usually direct to as “erotica for women,” and is available at most major mainstream bookshops. There are special bookstores for gay which sell books that are aimed at gay men. Sex shops also sell books that feature stories of graphic S/M.

Sexual writing has been brought further into public view, by Independent Counsel Kenneth Starr in his investigation of President Clinton. Even people who prefer not to look at porn may have read the details of The Starr Report, which disclosed fresh news about correlation Monica Lewinsky with President Clinton. The Starr Report was published in every local newspaper, major magazines, on the Internet, and as a book for everyone to read. If you missed it, here's a press-cutting of what it said about President Clinton's sex life:

“According to announcement of Ms. Lewinsky, they kissed. She was dressed a long dress that buttoned from the neck to the ankles. ‘And he unbuttoned my dress and he unfastened my brassiere, and took off my dress and bared my shoulders and…moved the bra…. [H]e was looking at me and touching me and telling me how beautiful I was.’ He touched her bosom and teats with his hands and his mouth, and licked her genitals, first through underwear and then directly. She gave blowjob to him.”

After reading The Starr Report, Penthouse Letters, a book of erotica, or something sexy that you wrote yourself, it will excite you. The genre you prefer is simply a matter of personal taste, and tastes are differ. So use whatever type you find good for you —enjoy it during masturbation, to get aroused before sex, or to share with your partner.